AtticusinCanada has written a nice little summary of her sufferings–I nominate it for the comment of the day award:
My whole life has changed because of this. I’ve felt immense grief that the only way to deal with and move on is to renounce. I always assumed if you were born some place you were entitled to that citizenship without any other need of proof. As long as you didn’t commit treason or some serious crime you were a citizen. I had never, once heard of an FBAR! I called the IRS many times over the years to make sure I still was within their rules and nobody every mentioned such a thing. Nobody mentioned when after 9/11 we were required to get a U.S. passport either. Some have said that it’s written on page 4 of the passport. Well, my vision is VERY bad even with glasses and I never even attempted to read those pages. I assumed if it was anything important I would have been told about it and barely glanced at the tiny,tiny print on those pages. Couldn’t someone have informed us when we landed here? In fact up until I had to get a U.S. passport I wasn’t too sure I was even a citizen there anymore sometimes since the person I spoke with when I landed at Buffalo insisted over and over that “You may lose your U.S. citizenship over this” So when I went for that passport in the back of my mind I was worried they might not give me one. When they did I mentioned the fact I’d been told I might lose my citizenship and the person there did say “No, you were misinformed.” I came here in 1980 so maybe the rules were different or something back then but, I only landed and had not taken citizenship.
The constant worry about money and fines, fees, penalties. The hours and hours lost trying to figure out the right paperwork, how to fill it out, who to trust or not and how in the bloody hell to pay for this “compliance” has made my rheumatoid arthritis flare up over and over when it was under control before. I have been in the hospital once with a terrible breathing problem they couldn’t get under control except for the use of steroids over a long period. I now think this was brought on by extreme stress. The situation was so bad at the hospital that I was questioned about extensive measures and did I want to be “revived” if things got worse. That situation also made my son’s illness worse since one of the things wrong with him is severe panic disorder and depression. He was there and had to witness the situation in the emergency room and hospital. I have no doubt in my mind at all that I was made sicker by worrying over this and fretting day in and day out. Loss of sleep, constantly trying to figure out “the right thing” only to find out that not even the IRS knows the “right thing” many times.
I found out about all this after the death of my mother and in the midst of dealing with a very difficult sibling. I wouldn’t have owed them a thing. In fact they owed me 600 dollars which I am afraid to claim. I still believe there are thousands of people who do not yet know about this at all!
I’ve had my tax forms prepared twice at quite an expense and I’m sure the paperwork is wrong and so have not sent it in. I have not done FBARS as I would need help with them and cannot afford it. My sons illness has flared really badly twice since I found out about this and some of his treatments are very expensive so any “extra” money I have goes to that. Not that we have any “extra” money!
How can anyone actually say how much they are affected by this since it just invades every area of your life. I haven’t been able to put this on the back burner and not worry about it even when something good is happening. As I said above I have one sibling who is a very, very difficult person and so telling my family I’m renouncing has been just peachy. That sibling will use this for the rest of my life to portray me as a “bad” person to other family members at every opportunity. So not only did it strain my marriage, it put me in the position of being a perpetual “black sheep” who will be “tolerated, pitied and disliked” an outsider, not “one of them” I’m so looking forward to having to deal with the dynamics that will go on once I have renounced. Some will know better but, others won’t.
Lately, this situation has lead to problems with my spouse because I haven’t renounced yet. It’s not that I don’t want to. I am terrified to go forward and file all that mess should a penalty be assigned to me. And tax payer advocate or not, I am just not in any physical shape right now to drag myself through such an ordeal. It’s GOT to be done but, this is such a catch 22!
This stupid witch hunt which people inside the U.S. think is going after the uber rich “off shoring” in “tax havens” has done more to harm low and middle income “targets” than anything I’ve seen them do down there in a long time. I have learned a hard lesson about what citizenship taxation is and what it means. I’m sickened by the comments I see on certain U.S. based articles. Is this who they really are?? Oddly, I think not. I think if it were happening to THEM they’d have a completely different opinion which makes them very selfish. The thing I am most angered about at the moment is that comment by President Obama last week that they are paying to fix their infrastructure by “repatriating taxes” First off that is a LIE, it’s NOT “taxes” It is fines and fees and penalties on paperwork nobody ever heard of outside the U.S. for the most part and they know it. If it were taxes it would even come close to being enough as according to American Citizens Abroad 82 percent of expats would owe zero taxes. Secondly, it told me that all this suffering was PLANNED. That they are NOT going to RBT and do not ever want to. That they know what they are doing and know no one inside the U.S. will care.
As some here have said it’s not the America we grew up in for those of us that did grow up there. Or maybe it is and we’re just now seeing how they operate with those that don’t live there. At any rate the feeling of betrayal and back stabbing runs deep. Like many of you I have spent decades here feeling I had to defend the U.S. at times and stand up for Americans because I felt many times they were all negatively portrayed and not all Americans are bad people. I had to deal with this daily since my mother in law was staunchly anti American. Coming to a new country and having to deal with her hurtful remarks was hard but, I DID win her over. Her and most people who got to know me well. I feel the U.S. is losing something they cannot get back. They can never make us back into good will ambassadors ever again. There was little justification for us to do that in many cases to begin with and now there will be none.
At any rate my main worry is keeping MY health up because my son needs me to be healthy. I can’t help him when he needs it if I go down too far. I’m just going to renounce, file what I can by sending it straight in and not going into any “program” as I do NOT trust ANY of their “programs” Why they would put families abroad who would not owe them a dime in taxes through this is beyond shocking to me. As Obama said they are going to rebuild their infrastructure by “repatriating taxes” NO it’s not “taxes” It is fines and fees and penalties on zero taxes owed in most cases. Who ever thought up such a plan and feels it is right is an immoral, vicious jerk.
I now believe there is no hope for them to resolve any of this with residency based taxation as the evidence and Obama’s comments show this was planned and is being done on purpose so why on earth would the let any minnows go and not penalize them?
@kalc
I hope you are right.
@pacifica777
Thank you for sharing your history and feelings.
I can relate to much of what you wrote. My idiotic idealism also felt like you when I became a Canadian. I had hope that america was changing for the better at that time. It has not.
My two b and e’s in early 90’s made me feel like you did with your fire experience. FATCA brought that feeling back. Violation. That is what I feel now.
I will be looking forward to reading all the future comments on this post when I come back from my water holiday that I hope will replenish my soul, spirit and body, FATCA has taken its toll. It has taken the opposite effect of you, pacifica777 on me. I have gained 40 pounds. Once the fog of FATCA is lifted I know I will have better frame of mine. And kose that weight caused by fear and anger.
@all
Thank you for sharing your feelings and experiences and knowledge. It has helped me keep hope and keep my sanity.
@Pacifica That was an awesome account of what you’ve had to suffer through, indeed quite gut-wrenching and seriously disturbing,
@AtticusinCanada,
Obviously there is no pain-free way out of this mess, but are you sure that renouncing is worth all the stress? Is it necessary for you to be able to travel to the USA?
@Pacifica
Your comment at 1:10 a.m http://isaacbrocksociety.ca/2013/08/14/has-your-life-been-stolen-from-you-by-the-irs-comment-of-the-day/comment-page-1/#comment-485415 is one of the most moving I have seen. I thank you for taking the time to compose it. Your integrating previous thoughts/comments reinforces what a hellish experience this has been and for how long.
Interestingly, I think that your analogy to the arsonist and being caught in a burning building is an interesting one. You say:
I once commented on another thread:
http://isaacbrocksociety.ca/2013/01/22/the-democrats-abroad-paradox-by-deckard1138/comment-page-1/#comment-154470
The first time you “bore the arsonist” no ill will because he was insane. What about this group of arsonists? Are they insane? How does one move on with life without bearing these people ill will?
While composing my last comment, I came across an amazing comment from Badger which really needs to be reproduced on this thread – this is one for the ages!
http://isaacbrocksociety.ca/2013/01/22/the-democrats-abroad-paradox-by-deckard1138/comment-page-1/#comment-154286
badger says
January 22, 2013 at 11:54 am
@Michael,
@Whitekat, yes it is absolutely necessary that I travel there. My siblings have a much harder time traveling here. One bil can’t fly due to breathing problems, my brother is almost never off work and my dad doesn’t fly anymore either. I would never see them again if I did not go there.
@Pacifica, I am agreement with USCitizenAbroad, my god your comments are so moving. Reading what everyone has been through and is still dealing with, I can only shake my head. This is all so needless for them to be going this far and putting so many through such distress. Thank you for posting that. I feel honoured to have read it.
My life will literally be over if the worse case scenario occurs.
KalC knows my story
@USCA, @Badger, that post is excellent! It lays it all out there! I’d love for the Globe reporter to see it! It so well sums up what is going on and that is not just a matter of “filing some papers” at all. Thank you posting it!
@Money
Leaving aside the specifics of your situation, what is your definition of:
“worst case scenario”.
It’s all the shifting sand that bothers me. My husband and I entered OVDI in good faith that we would be dealt with quickly and move on with our lives. 20 months and two additions years of tax returns later, we still haven’t resolved our issues with the IRS. Although I can appreciate that we may get a more favourable outcome with the wait, it is still an outcome worse that had we not been misled by the IRS into entering OVDI in the first place. What we thought would be an express lane to renunciation is a ditch filled with mud.
Two words best describe how I feel right now: betrayed and ambushed.
@northernstar – Regret I couldn’t get to the London meeting. Would love to know how it went.
The journey to London is currently a daunting obstacle in my planning to renounce. A journey that I might once have made at the drop of a hat is going to take much preparation – all the more so when I can ill afford the cost of any mistakes. But I’m gradually putting the pieces into place….
If I’m deeply honest, I guess this whole situation has left me a “coward”, where once I used to be a bold risk-taker – but for how long can one feel confident when one’s energies are all used on defensive measures against the huge hammer hanging over our heads, and almost every course of sensible action seems to come up against a dead end?
A Big Thankyou to IBS and all of you who help us through this.
Ignoring it might just work for a couple years, till….uh, something.
But it all sure as heck makes it impossible to make a living. Can’t run, or even partially own a business if an individual must then report 700-1000 hrs of personal taxes back to US. That makes it pretty impossible to be a contractor which is pretty necessary in my line of work.
Can’t move back to USA while still having “offshore accounts”, that’s a sure way to be an example on some lawyer’s webpage of huge offshore penalties..
Can’t move to UK, can’t have any bank account there. Norway isn’t going to get any easier. UAE is the best place for oil jobs, and also the place where the IRS agents hang out looking for easy targets. Ditto Singapore.
So, I guess its just best to have been made into a criminal tax evader by my best butty Barry.
Perhaps I might give some practical advice: Think like a criminal! It shouldn’t be too hard since the US govt thinks you are one. A criminal knows he can be arrested by the police any time but does he let this get in the way of enjoying his life? Not at all. A criminal takes rational steps to avoid getting caught but he doesn’t obsess over it. Of course, this is hard if you’ve been a law-abiding citizen up to now but thinking like a criminal is much better for your mental health.
@Johnson…lol
gotta like it
Anybody has actually talked to a lawyer about extradition policy. Would the revenue rule prevent a problem for not filling USA taxes for a Canadian citizen resident and clean Canadian taxpayer.
“Whalethink”.
@money,
I am not sure what the ‘revenue rule’ is that you are referring to, but I am personally not worried as a ‘clean Canadian’ about extradition due to my never having filed a US tax return in my life. That would be ridiculous. Wait, FATCA and CBT are also ridiculous, so never say never I guess.
Seriously though, don’t go to the US, drop off the radar as a ‘US tax payer’ if you haven’t already, find a local credit union with assets under 175 mill, visit IBS frequently for moral support, and take Johnson’s advice.
@money
If you’re going to be damned as a criminal no matter what, then you may as well start thinking like one.
If separating my joint accounts from my wife in order to protect her from the IRS makes me look like a criminal to the IRS, then fuck it. My first duty is to my marriage. Not my country.
@USCA, thank you for finding and posting my comment. I am just happy to be able to contribute something useful here. IBS has helped me immensely.
What reporters need to know as well – and to tell all the world; is that the irresponsible conduct and deliberate threats of the IRS and US, the insane complexity and unjust demands and draconian conditions attached to our “US taxable person” status, plus the incredible costs of legal and accounting professional fees, and all the other barriers to finding any effective remedy have come very close to literally stealing lives.
I remember posts here that had us concerned that this would be the case. There have been some very dark nights and days. IBS has been literally a lifeline. It is unlikely that an individual will attest to that in the press using their real name but it is true. Some past threads here contain ample evidence of the singular depth of the fear, despair and anger experienced by readers and participants. And those are only the ones we know about because of the sharing here.
The Taxpayer Advocate has received feedback on this issue via the SAMS as well – so the IRS continues to act willfully, punitively, and irresponsibly, with full knowledge of the potentially life threatening impact of what it is doing, and has done to us. US extraterritorial taxation and financial reporting laws and penalty structures threaten our very wellbeing, our security, and that of our non-US families.
Canadian and other reporters also need to see the stark contrast between how the IRS and Treasury would treat a US resident with little or no US tax owing and legal local US-sited accounts vs. their punitive and unjust treatment of a similarly situated US-deemed ‘taxable person’ living in Canada or elsewhere on the planet, whose legal local accounts are held where they actually live, earn and already pay a full set of taxes – outside the US – but who hasn’t filed information reporting forms like the FBAR.
We’re all being screwed.
The largest condom factory in the States burned down. President Obama was awakened at 4 am by the telephone.
“Sorry to bother you at this hour, Sir, but there is an emergency! I’ve just received word that the Durex factory in Washington has burned to the ground. It is estimated that the entire USA supply of condoms will be used up by the end of the week.”
Obama: “Oh damn! The economy will never be able to cope with all those unwanted babies. We’ll be ruined. We’ll have to ship some condoms in from Mexico ..”
Telephone voice says, “Bad idea… The Mexicans will have a field day with this one. We’ll be a laughing stock.. What about Canada?”
Obama: “Okay, I’ll call Stephen Harper and tell him we need five million condoms, ten inches long and three inches thick. That way, they’ll continue to respect us as Americans.”
Three days later, a delighted President Obama ran out to open the first of the 10,000 boxes that had just arrived. He found it full of condoms, 10 inches long and 3 inches thick, exactly as requested… all colored with red maple leaves with small writing on each one:
MADE IN CANADA – SIZE: SMALL
…and we didn’t even dinner bought for us.
@WhiteKat
LMAO
I’ve shared that condom factory story with my wife. Credted to you, of course. ;^)
@mjh49783
I can’t take credit either…found it in my email inbox this morning and thought this thread was a ‘good fit’.